In the News

          

Interview with MSNBC: “Helping heroes takes battlefield experience to the business world”

Marine Turned Entrepreneur Uses Technology to Reduce Violence, WUNC, NPR’s The State of Things

NCTA Names Top 10 Startups to Watch, WRAL TechWire

On our Radar: Tiger Eye Sensor, Third Wave Fashion

How to Create Inner Peace, Inspire Me Today

What Doesn’t Kill You Helps You Change the World, Career 2.0

CJ Scarlet: A Device and Mission to Stop Violence Before It Starts, The Story Exchange

Veterans Flex Their Startup Muscles at Patriot Bootcamp, WRAL TechWire

Marine Vet, Tiger Eye Security Sensor Founder Wins Techstars Patriot Bootcamp, ExitEvent

Tiger Eye Sensor Wins NCTA 2015 State of Technology Startup Showcase Competition, NCTechNews

Helping heroes takes battlefield experience to the business world, MSNBC

Marine Turned Entrepreneur Uses Technology To Reduce Violence, WUNC

Scarlet’s Goal: Reduce Violence, News & Observer

Bizwomen: “This Sexual Assault Survivor Channeled Her Experience into a Device to Help Others”

ABC WWAY: “Female Innovators Share Wisdom with Local Entrepreneurs”

UNC-TV: UNC Patriot Bootcamp (Parts 1 & 2):

Part One: http://video.unctv.org/video/2365555552/

Part Two: http://video.unctv.org/video/2365555568/

News and Observer: “Clayton company finalist in SBA business competition”

NPR: “The State of Things” featuring CJ Scarlet

Exit Event: “Meet the Woman Behind IoT for Self-Defense”

News and Observer: “Tarheel of the Week: CJ Scarlet works to curb violence against women”

News and Observer: “Jewelry will pack crime-fighting punch”

Interview with CBS Affiliate- WRAL: “Local vet hopes GPS technology can help prevent crime”

Make a Connection, CJ’s Battle with PTSD

 

Interview topic ideas:

  • The #1 Reason Women Are Targeted by Predators (hint: you learned it from your mother!)
  • Top 10 Tips for Outwitting Predators
  • How Predators Select and Groom Their Victims
  • How to Avoid Being Victimized by Out-Thinking and Out-Talking Predators
  • How to Unleash Your Inner Badass and Fight (Dirty) if You Must (with no martial arts or self-defense training!)
  • The 5 Ways Crime Victims Respond During an Assault
  • The #1 Date Rape Drug (it’s not what you think!)
  • 5 Uncommon Strategies to Outwit Predators in the Workplace
  • Common Rape Myths and Facts
  • Reviews of the top self-defense products for women and girls
  • Reviews of the top GPS products for children
  • Thriving After Surviving a Victimization (e.g., sexual assault, military sexual trauma)
  • CJ’s personal story of how she survived being raped as a college freshman and went on to become internationally known as an expert in criminal justice and victim advocacy issues.

 

CJ Scarlet’s Bio

CJ Scarlet was 19, a freshman in college, when she was raped by a sheriff’s deputy she had just started dating. In 1980 there was no word for date rape, so she blamed herself for “tempting him” by entering his apartment. Four months later, CJ was sexually assaulted by her Marine Corps recruiter, who took advantage of his position of authority.

For a decade CJ grappled with the trauma of these events. She had already survived childhood sexual abuse, so these latest assaults manifested an even deeper level of shame and self-loathing. She came to accept that she must have a big “V” tattooed on her forehead that announced to every predator within a mile that she was an ideal victim.

Eventually, CJ found healing through therapy and self-help books, and somewhere along the way she came to love and forgive herself and her assailants. But the real turning point came when she grew tired of the trauma owning her life.

CJ took her power back and became an advocate for others who had been victimized. She served on the board of the local rape crisis center and took the helm as executive director of a child advocacy center, both while working to complete her master’s degree in human violence. She then served for three years as Director of Victims Issues for the North Carolina Attorney General’s Office, where she implemented the first statewide automated victim notification system that notifies survivors before their perpetrators are released from custody.
Yet, after nearly three decades as a victim advocate, CJ grew tired of dealing with crime and violence after they occurred. she knew that if things continue as they are, the work will never end. She realized that to create genuine change, she needed to address the source of the problem. So, CJ chose to focus her efforts on thwarting predators and keeping people from being victimized at all.

But the dark secrets CJ held and the stress they caused led her to develop two life-threatening autoimmune conditions that, in 2002, left her fighting for her life. By 2004, she was so debilitated, she had to crawl on her hands and knees to get upstairs, and she couldn’t lift a cup of coffee or hold a hairbrush. She became very depressed and anxious about her impending heart failure.

Then CJ was offered the chance to meet privately with a Tibetan Buddhist lama who commanded her to “stop feeling sorry for herself and start thinking of the happiness of other people.” Daunted but determined, CJ began performing small acts of kindness—letting the mom with the crying baby go ahead of her in line, giving her cane to a woman who was struggling to walk and volunteering at the Red Cross after Hurricane Katrina. These simple, free acts made her feel a bit happier, so she did more, and the more she did the better she felt, until she reached a point where her heart was so full it no longer mattered whether she was sick or ill, or even living or dying—she was filled with gratitude for each moment.

At that point, her condition went into remission! Today, CJ feels better than ever.
CJ decided to use the life lessons she had learned, along with her knowledge of victims’ issues, to address violence and crime on a global level. This led her to write a self-empowerment book for women and girls entitled The Badass Girl’s Guide: Uncommon Strategies to Outwit Predators.

Filled with critical information about how to empower yourself to keep from becoming a crime statistic, this definitive, comprehensive guide contains facts and strategies not found in other personal security books. From tips on how to “fail” the predator interview and avoid being targeted, to instructions on using your personal bodily “weapons” to defend yourself in a confrontation, CJ Scarlet offers everything you need to know to stay safe, fight if you must and navigate the criminal justice process if the worst happens.

CJ holds a B.A. in Political Science from Virginia Wesleyan College, and an interdisciplinary M.A. in Humanities with an emphasis on Human Violence and graduate certificate in Women’s Studies from Old Dominion University.

The former roller-skating car hop, U.S. Marine and forest firefighter is an award-winning writer, motivational speaker and entrepreneur. She has given presentations and workshops at national and international events, and has appeared on numerous radio and television programs, including MSNBC and NPR. CJ has also been named one of the “Happy 100” people on the planet, and is featured in the bestselling books, Happy for No Reason and Be Invincible. 

Book Description:

The Badass Girl’s Guide: Uncommon Strategies to Outwit Predators

The Badass Girl’s Guide: Uncommon Strategies to Outwit Predators is the one book criminal predators don’t want you to read. Filled with critical information about how to empower yourself to keep from becoming a crime statistic, this definitive, comprehensive guide contains facts and strategies not found in other personal security books.

From tips on how to “fail” the predator interview and avoid being targeted, to instructions on using your personal bodily “weapons” to defend yourself in a confrontation, CJ Scarlet offers everything you need to know to stay safe, fight if you must and navigate the criminal justice process if the worst happens.

If you read just one book on personal safety and self-defense in your lifetime, The Badass Girl’s Guide is the one for you!

 

Target readers:

  • Women of all ages
  • Girls age 13 and above
  • College students
  • Victim advocates
  • Law enforcement officers
  • Title IX coordinators

Where to purchase The Badass Girl’s Guide: Uncommon Strategies to Outwit Predators:

Link coming soon.

 

Praise for The Badass Girl’s Guide:

“I wish this book had been around when I was in college. Back then we didn’t understand ‘date rape’ and truly thought we were ‘asking for it’ if we were assaulted. The concept of fighting back was foreign to us. This well-written book is extremely comprehensive, and dishes out good, solid advice on how to deal with a sexual predator. I especially like the part about channeling your inner Tasmanian Devil! Although I’m no longer a young woman, as a recent divorcee back in the dating world, you can bet I’ll keep these tips in mind when I go on a date!

Susan Conley

“CJ Scarlet’s Badass Girl’s Guide is the best book I’ve ever read on the topic of self-empowerment and self-defense for women and girls. I especially took to heart CJ’s suggestion of calling 911 and starting to describe what the predator looks like in the event of an imminent attack. This book helped me understand the minds and behaviors of predators in order to thwart their efforts to victimize others. I loved CJ’s instructions to ‘summon your inner Tasmanian Devil’ to physically fight off an attacker and now feel more confident in my ability to do so. Filled with stories and examples of how others survived assaults, this book is a quick and interesting read. I plan to protect my loved ones by buying them copies to help keep them safer as well.”

Mary Cantando, Founder of The Woman’s Advantage®

“Extremely readable, eye-opening and informative, The Badass Girls’ Guide to Unleashing Your Power is written from the heart and offers valuable information for everyone. This important book should be required reading for ALL young women. Author CJ Scarlet candidly shares stories and examples from her own fascinating life. She clearly knows what she’s talking about and she’s brave enough to share it!”

Lyn Jackson, CEO, Every Story Media

“In The Badass Girl’s Guide, CJ Scarlet shares her story and wisdom with courage and a bit of irreverence. I learned so much from this book that will guide me going forward, and I feel much more confident about my ability to protect myself from predators. The book is very well-written and an easy read. Whether or not you think you’re a likely target for predators, you NEED to read this book!”

Kathy Booth

CJ Scarlet delves into the mind of a perpetrator, shows us what and how to use our intuition to thwart potential attacks, and provides insight and common sense tactics in using the physical deterrents we were born with so we can ACT when needed. Exposing myths, giving us steps to take after an assault, and explaining how to use the justice system wisely, are invaluable tools for parents and anyone wanting to avoid being a victim.”

Ann Jagger, International Author, Screenwriter, Film Producer

 

Also by CJ Scarlet:

image002Neptune’s Gift: Discovering Your Inner Ocean

When Dylan, an average wave of middling ability, realizes he is about to crash on the shore, he is terrified and miserable. But when he encounters a magnificent wave named Serena, Dylan learns that he is not separate and alone, but One with every wave and every creature in the ocean. In fact, Dylan learns that he is the ocean itself. In the process, he discovers that courage is found in the eye of the storm, that the limitless abundance of the universe is always within our grasp, that it is through focusing on the happiness of others that one’s own happiness is achieved, that we truly do possess the power to make our dreams come true, and that although we appear to be separate from one another, we are collective drops that together form the same vast ocean. The book is sprinkled with colorful sea creature characters that help illuminate and reinforce the lessons Dylan learns on his voyage of the spirit. Abounding with thoughtful ideas for readers to consider and apply directly to their lives, this profound and fun allegorical tale will leave readers touched and inspired, as they travel with Dylan on the greatest journey of his life. Neptune’s Gift is perfect for children of all ages and their parents who want to expose them to some of life’s most important lessons about managing fear, riding out the storms of life and finding genuine happiness.

Blurbs about Neptune’s Gift:

“Neptune’s Gift is a wonderful allegorical tale about the true purpose and deeper meaning of life—a Jonathan Livingston Seagull for the new century.” Jack Canfield, co-author of The Success Principles™: How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be

Neptune’s Gift… is a wonderfully crafted sea tale that swirls together the laws of nature and humanity into a glorious sea of compassion and tolerance that is so often tested when difficulties arise. It is a thought provoking, magical tale that tickled my inner child with its innocence and grace.” Diane C.

Target readers:

  • Neptune’s Gift: Discovering Your Inner Ocean:
    • Children of all ages will love the colorful sea creatures who share Dylan’s journey and impart important life lessons.
    • Parents who want to expose their children to real-world lessons for finding balance and happiness.
    • Spiritual seekers
    • Those facing life-threatening or terminal illnesses.

Where to purchase Neptune’s Gift: Discovering Your Inner Ocean:

To order Neptune’s Gift: Discovering Your Inner Ocean by CJ Scarlet, visit Amazon.com or click here. 

 

Contact information:

Email: CJ@cjscarlet.com
Tel: 919-606-9376
Twitter: @cjscarlet
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/cjscarlet
Facebook: www.facebook.com/cjscarletauthor

 

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